Comments on: The Beautiful Curse http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/ Fri, 04 May 2012 05:38:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: lauren http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/#comment-1301 lauren Sun, 18 Jul 2010 12:53:33 +0000 http://www.insightwriter.com/?p=1038#comment-1301 jen, i feel sorry for you, i really do, because i know houw you feel. it is true if your beautiful people either want to take advantage of you and want to destroy you. no wonder alot of beautiful people are quiet and tend to not have friends. but always know you are not alone there is alot of people out there like you. jen, i feel sorry for you, i really do, because i know houw you feel. it is true if your beautiful people either want to take advantage of you and want to destroy you. no wonder alot of beautiful people are quiet and tend to not have friends. but always know you are not alone there is alot of people out there like you.

]]> By: Jen http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/#comment-1300 Jen Tue, 22 Jun 2010 11:12:33 +0000 http://www.insightwriter.com/?p=1038#comment-1300 I have looked up this blog because I am crying right now and have done for as long as I can remember. I was bullied and beaten since I was ten years old and also received sexually inappropriate attention from males since about age 9. Yes 9. I can't keep female friends, they always accuse me of sleeping with their boyfriends when they know darn well I didn't. I can't keep a boyfriend because if I don't have sex straight away they see me as a liability, but nevertheless tell the whole neighborhood that we did it anyway so they will look good. I have even had to remove my children from their sports teams because I had a mental breakdown once I was accused of sleeping with their coach for christ sakes. What is ironic, is that I haven't had sex in 5 years because I desperately want respect from both women and men, but this doesn't change the fact that they will always perceive me as a sex goddess simply because BEAUTY IS A CURSE. Even family members (female ones) tried to destroy my childhood (and succeeded). Mums boyfriends tried it on, married men try it on, even lecturers at college tried it on (female and male)! You would not believe how lonely my life is, and how decent my character actually is, but I even get asked if I would have sex for money from men. The other day I took my son to the doctor and HE even asked if I was single during a CONSULTATION. I hate my life, but I can't kill myself because then my kids will have no one. I have looked up this blog because I am crying right now and have done for as long as I can remember. I was bullied and beaten since I was ten years old and also received sexually inappropriate attention from males since about age 9. Yes 9.

I can’t keep female friends, they always accuse me of sleeping with their boyfriends when they know darn well I didn’t.

I can’t keep a boyfriend because if I don’t have sex straight away they see me as a liability, but nevertheless tell the whole neighborhood that we did it anyway so they will look good.

I have even had to remove my children from their sports teams because I had a mental breakdown once I was accused of sleeping with their coach for christ sakes.

What is ironic, is that I haven’t had sex in 5 years because I desperately want respect from both women and men, but this doesn’t change the fact that they will always perceive me as a sex goddess simply because BEAUTY IS A CURSE.

Even family members (female ones) tried to destroy my childhood (and succeeded).
Mums boyfriends tried it on, married men try it on, even lecturers at college tried it on (female and male)!

You would not believe how lonely my life is, and how decent my character actually is, but I even get asked if I would have sex for money from men. The other day I took my son to the doctor and HE even asked if I was single during a CONSULTATION.

I hate my life, but I can’t kill myself because then my kids will have no one.

]]> By: Biashe http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/#comment-1299 Biashe Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:58:26 +0000 http://www.insightwriter.com/?p=1038#comment-1299 As a 41 year-old woman, I must say being attractive is hard, and can feel like a curse most of the time. I was teased and taunted as I young teen because of my looks, and then around 13 things changed, and every since I've had a hard time with females. I even left my church somewhat because the "saved women" there didn't act any better, and I never felt welcomed or was invited inside of groups. What people don't realize that just like unattractive people, we can't help our looks and were born with them. Take the time to get to know the REAL person behind the looks. I have one girlfriend of 25 years, because women hate me on site, and never get to know me, even family members keep me at a distance. Life is good for me, have a wonderful husband and children, but would love to have had more friends in my life...the "curse" of beauty is very real.. As a 41 year-old woman, I must say being attractive is hard, and can feel like a curse most of the time. I was teased and taunted as I young teen because of my looks, and then around 13 things changed, and every since I’ve had a hard time with females. I even left my church somewhat because the “saved women” there didn’t act any better, and I never felt welcomed or was invited inside of groups. What people don’t realize that just like unattractive people, we can’t help our looks and were born with them. Take the time to get to know the REAL person behind the looks. I have one girlfriend of 25 years, because women hate me on site, and never get to know me, even family members keep me at a distance. Life is good for me, have a wonderful husband and children, but would love to have had more friends in my life…the “curse” of beauty is very real..

]]> By: Home made hands job http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/#comment-1298 Home made hands job Sat, 10 Oct 2009 19:34:50 +0000 http://www.insightwriter.com/?p=1038#comment-1298 People can precieve you has being stuck up, self-centered, unintelligent, shallow, they won't talk to you because they don't feel good enough, if you're really beautiful guys won't approach you, etc..... .-= Home made hands job´s last blog ..<a href="http://alwayshandmade.com/know-the-facts-before-buying-jewelry.html" rel="nofollow">Know the facts before buying Jewelry</a> =-. People can precieve you has being stuck up, self-centered, unintelligent, shallow, they won’t talk to you because they don’t feel good enough, if you’re really beautiful guys won’t approach you, etc…..
.-= Home made hands job´s last blog ..Know the facts before buying Jewelry =-.

]]> By: Home made hands job http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/#comment-1297 Home made hands job Sat, 10 Oct 2009 19:34:09 +0000 http://www.insightwriter.com/?p=1038#comment-1297 Consider an unattractive woman... they draw far less of a crowd to choose from, but there's a good chance they at least know a good guy when they see one. .-= Home made hands job´s last blog ..<a href="http://alwayshandmade.com/know-the-facts-before-buying-jewelry.html" rel="nofollow">Know the facts before buying Jewelry</a> =-. Consider an unattractive woman… they draw far less of a crowd to choose from, but there’s a good chance they at least know a good guy when they see one.
.-= Home made hands job´s last blog ..Know the facts before buying Jewelry =-.

]]> By: Home made hands job http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/#comment-1296 Home made hands job Sat, 10 Oct 2009 19:29:16 +0000 http://www.insightwriter.com/?p=1038#comment-1296 I've noticed that beautiful woman are not necessarily happier, maybe even less happy than their less attractive friends. Yeah, its nice to get attention, but that's only temporary. .-= Home made hands job´s last blog ..<a href="http://alwayshandmade.com/know-the-facts-before-buying-jewelry.html" rel="nofollow">Know the facts before buying Jewelry</a> =-. I’ve noticed that beautiful woman are not necessarily happier, maybe even less happy than their less attractive friends. Yeah, its nice to get attention, but that’s only temporary.
.-= Home made hands job´s last blog ..Know the facts before buying Jewelry =-.

]]> By: used tires http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/#comment-1295 used tires Thu, 23 Jul 2009 07:07:29 +0000 http://www.insightwriter.com/?p=1038#comment-1295 Now this is a really tough issue to discuss, there could be so many different approaches and views on this... I think in the end... whether you are beautiful or ugly... or in between. It just depends on the person. There are some people in this world that are not meant to be beautiful, as in they don't have the mentality to do it, just like there are some people that don't have the mentality to be ugly. I think like anything in life, it's all about the mental approach. I am not sure if you understand what I mean.... but that's how I see it. Till then, Jean Now this is a really tough issue to discuss, there could be so many different approaches and views on this… I think in the end… whether you are beautiful or ugly… or in between. It just depends on the person. There are some people in this world that are not meant to be beautiful, as in they don’t have the mentality to do it, just like there are some people that don’t have the mentality to be ugly. I think like anything in life, it’s all about the mental approach. I am not sure if you understand what I mean…. but that’s how I see it.

Till then,

Jean

]]> By: Komodo Dragon http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/#comment-1294 Komodo Dragon Wed, 22 Jul 2009 01:13:32 +0000 http://www.insightwriter.com/?p=1038#comment-1294 Yes, its definitely a part of the culture... But its also part of every culture. Its been known that the native cultures of an African country rubbed animal fat on their faces to keep it moisturized and more youthful looking, when they could have used the animal fat for other more practical things... -Ben Yes, its definitely a part of the culture… But its also part of every culture. Its been known that the native cultures of an African country rubbed animal fat on their faces to keep it moisturized and more youthful looking, when they could have used the animal fat for other more practical things…

-Ben

]]> By: bajki dla dzieci http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/#comment-1293 bajki dla dzieci Wed, 15 Jul 2009 09:14:13 +0000 http://www.insightwriter.com/?p=1038#comment-1293 Everything depends of what we used to think of the "beauty" definition. I see the real beauty as the whole, and it doesn't concern about nowadays fashions and popular styles. So in last 30-40 years to maximum slimeness is popular, but in 10 years this fasion will end. We like faces that are similar to children faces - that is evolutionary thing. But it doesn't mean that other faces are not beautiful. For me everyone can be beautiful - especially women just need to know that they are beautiful the way they are. .-= bajki dla dzieci´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.bajki-dla-dzieci.eu/bolek-i-lolek-krol-puszczy/" rel="nofollow">Bolek I Lolek – Król Puszczy</a> =-. Everything depends of what we used to think of the “beauty” definition. I see the real beauty as the whole, and it doesn’t concern about nowadays fashions and popular styles. So in last 30-40 years to maximum slimeness is popular, but in 10 years this fasion will end. We like faces that are similar to children faces – that is evolutionary thing. But it doesn’t mean that other faces are not beautiful. For me everyone can be beautiful – especially women just need to know that they are beautiful the way they are.
.-= bajki dla dzieci´s last blog ..Bolek I Lolek – Król Puszczy =-.

]]> By: TH http://insightwriter.com/2009/06/22/the-beautiful-curse/#comment-1292 TH Mon, 13 Jul 2009 15:00:47 +0000 http://www.insightwriter.com/?p=1038#comment-1292 This is an interesting topic in deed. First I'll say as a child I was the "ugly duckling". However as I matured the funny looking little girl vanished and I turned in to a beautifully curvy young woman, almost overnight. I lost every friend I had. Dating was hard because most guys only saw the outside and had no idea I had a brain too. I was always the "trophy" arm piece, and have had the worst time ever holding on to female friends. Women not only dislike me on sight, but they hate me and always shut me out of the "click". Beauty can be a curse like you wouldn't believe..... This is an interesting topic in deed. First I’ll say as a child I was the “ugly duckling”. However as I matured the funny looking little girl vanished and I turned in to a beautifully curvy young woman, almost overnight. I lost every friend I had. Dating was hard because most guys only saw the outside and had no idea I had a brain too. I was always the “trophy” arm piece, and have had the worst time ever holding on to female friends. Women not only dislike me on sight, but they hate me and always shut me out of the “click”.
Beauty can be a curse like you wouldn’t believe…..

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