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		<title>By: Herbert</title>
		<link>http://insightwriter.com/2009/03/02/outstanding-conversationalist/#comment-986</link>
		<dc:creator>Herbert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 23:26:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All valid points, I particularly like the one about pausing before reply. I find that if I reply too quickly, we tend to clash and two people say things at once. And then they both stop, or one backs down and isn&#039;t able to get their idea out (immediately).

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Herbert&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://cutedge.org/connect-your-ipod-or-mp3-player-to-your-car-for-less-than-20/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Connect your iPod or MP3 Player to your Car — For Less than $20&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All valid points, I particularly like the one about pausing before reply. I find that if I reply too quickly, we tend to clash and two people say things at once. And then they both stop, or one backs down and isn&#8217;t able to get their idea out (immediately).</p>
<p><abbr><em>Herbert&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://cutedge.org/connect-your-ipod-or-mp3-player-to-your-car-for-less-than-20/" rel="nofollow">Connect your iPod or MP3 Player to your Car — For Less than $20</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Personal Development Blog &#124; Update: Niche Profit Classroom And Guest Posts &#8211; The Big Dreamer</title>
		<link>http://insightwriter.com/2009/03/02/outstanding-conversationalist/#comment-985</link>
		<dc:creator>Personal Development Blog &#124; Update: Niche Profit Classroom And Guest Posts &#8211; The Big Dreamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 04:17:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Mark Foo &#124; TheBigDreamer.com</title>
		<link>http://insightwriter.com/2009/03/02/outstanding-conversationalist/#comment-984</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark Foo &#124; TheBigDreamer.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 02:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Hi George,

It&#039;s great that you&#039;ve already been using these tips!

@Hi Jeremy,

Thank you for sharing the article with your SU friends. :)

@Hi Michele,

I&#039;m glad you like these tips. Thank you for stumbling it! :)

@Bunny got Blog,

I&#039;m glad you find the tips useful. Thank you for your comment.

@Hi Mike,

You&#039;re right. We should tell people more explicitly that we&#039;re genuinely interested. In fact, sometimes I do tell people, &quot;That&#039;s interesting. I&#039;d like to know more.&quot;

@timethief,

I&#039;m glad that you enjoyed reading this article. I like the theme of your blog. It&#039;s very clean and easy on the eyes.

Thank you all for giving your feedback!

Cheers~

Mark

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Mark Foo &#124; TheBigDreamer.com&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thebigdreamer.com/50-things-that-im-grateful-for&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;50 Things That I’m Grateful For&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Hi George,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s great that you&#8217;ve already been using these tips!</p>
<p>@Hi Jeremy,</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing the article with your SU friends. <img src='http://insightwriter.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Hi Michele,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad you like these tips. Thank you for stumbling it! <img src='http://insightwriter.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Bunny got Blog,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad you find the tips useful. Thank you for your comment.</p>
<p>@Hi Mike,</p>
<p>You&#8217;re right. We should tell people more explicitly that we&#8217;re genuinely interested. In fact, sometimes I do tell people, &#8220;That&#8217;s interesting. I&#8217;d like to know more.&#8221;</p>
<p>@timethief,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad that you enjoyed reading this article. I like the theme of your blog. It&#8217;s very clean and easy on the eyes.</p>
<p>Thank you all for giving your feedback!</p>
<p>Cheers~</p>
<p>Mark</p>
<p><abbr><em>Mark Foo | TheBigDreamer.com&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.thebigdreamer.com/50-things-that-im-grateful-for" rel="nofollow">50 Things That I’m Grateful For</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: timethief</title>
		<link>http://insightwriter.com/2009/03/02/outstanding-conversationalist/#comment-983</link>
		<dc:creator>timethief</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 16:29:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really enjoyed reading this excellent advice. Remarkably I blogged on the subject of listening from the heart just a week ago, and Mark&#039;s piece is a validation and enhancement of that theme.
&lt;a href=&quot;http://thistimethisspace.com/2009/03/02/no-competance-no-success/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;No Competence - No Success&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really enjoyed reading this excellent advice. Remarkably I blogged on the subject of listening from the heart just a week ago, and Mark&#8217;s piece is a validation and enhancement of that theme.<br />
<a href="http://thistimethisspace.com/2009/03/02/no-competance-no-success/" rel="nofollow">No Competence &#8211; No Success</a></p>
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		<title>By: Mike King</title>
		<link>http://insightwriter.com/2009/03/02/outstanding-conversationalist/#comment-982</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike King</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 04:32:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You might even go so far to say, &quot;Hey, I&#039;m really interested in what you have to say...&quot;

Go figure.  If you can tell them genuinely and you do have interest, tell them.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Mike King&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://learnthis.ca/2009/02/8-steps-for-acting-on-inspiration/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;8 Steps for Acting on Inspiration&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You might even go so far to say, &#8220;Hey, I&#8217;m really interested in what you have to say&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Go figure.  If you can tell them genuinely and you do have interest, tell them.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Mike King&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://learnthis.ca/2009/02/8-steps-for-acting-on-inspiration/" rel="nofollow">8 Steps for Acting on Inspiration</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Bunny got Blog</title>
		<link>http://insightwriter.com/2009/03/02/outstanding-conversationalist/#comment-981</link>
		<dc:creator>Bunny got Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 02:58:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great and useful post!!! 

The facts are all right there.You have to listen and respect the speaker first.Rather you agree or not.

Cheers

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Bunny got Blog&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://bunnygotblog.com/from-girls-to-women/nellie-bly&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Nellie Bly&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great and useful post!!! </p>
<p>The facts are all right there.You have to listen and respect the speaker first.Rather you agree or not.</p>
<p>Cheers</p>
<p><abbr><em>Bunny got Blog&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://bunnygotblog.com/from-girls-to-women/nellie-bly" rel="nofollow">Nellie Bly</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Michele</title>
		<link>http://insightwriter.com/2009/03/02/outstanding-conversationalist/#comment-980</link>
		<dc:creator>Michele</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 02:46:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a great article, Mark! I love these tips. Sometimes it&#039;s hard to remember to pay attention. Life is full of distractions, but we wouldn&#039;t want to make anyone feel badly because we weren&#039;t paying attention to what they&#039;re saying!

Gave this a stumble. I know others will find value in it--I certainly do!

*smiles*
Michele

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Michele&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://writingthecyberhighway.com/2009/02/25-fun-facts-you-didnt-know-about-me/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;25 Fun Facts You Didn’t Know About Me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a great article, Mark! I love these tips. Sometimes it&#8217;s hard to remember to pay attention. Life is full of distractions, but we wouldn&#8217;t want to make anyone feel badly because we weren&#8217;t paying attention to what they&#8217;re saying!</p>
<p>Gave this a stumble. I know others will find value in it&#8211;I certainly do!</p>
<p>*smiles*<br />
Michele</p>
<p><abbr><em>Michele&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://writingthecyberhighway.com/2009/02/25-fun-facts-you-didnt-know-about-me/" rel="nofollow">25 Fun Facts You Didn’t Know About Me</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Jeremy Day</title>
		<link>http://insightwriter.com/2009/03/02/outstanding-conversationalist/#comment-979</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeremy Day</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 00:23:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mark,

Thank you again for taking the time to write this guest post. This is a perfect example of things many of us know but dont put into practice and it is a good reminder.
I have sent this out to quite a few of my SU friends. Hopefully you get a few more responses. ;-)

Cheers,
Jeremy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mark,</p>
<p>Thank you again for taking the time to write this guest post. This is a perfect example of things many of us know but dont put into practice and it is a good reminder.<br />
I have sent this out to quite a few of my SU friends. Hopefully you get a few more responses. <img src='http://insightwriter.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Cheers,<br />
Jeremy</p>
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		<title>By: Tumblemoose</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tumblemoose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 00:09:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s interesting.  I used to own and teach a paramedic school.  I had to coach the students on good history taking techniques and I used a lot of these tips!

Good one.

George

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tumblemoose&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tumblemoose.com/writers-does-a-library-intimidate-or-inspire/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Writers: Does a library intimidate or inspire?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s interesting.  I used to own and teach a paramedic school.  I had to coach the students on good history taking techniques and I used a lot of these tips!</p>
<p>Good one.</p>
<p>George</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tumblemoose&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://tumblemoose.com/writers-does-a-library-intimidate-or-inspire/" rel="nofollow">Writers: Does a library intimidate or inspire?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Mark Foo &#124; TheBigDreamer.com</title>
		<link>http://insightwriter.com/2009/03/02/outstanding-conversationalist/#comment-977</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark Foo &#124; TheBigDreamer.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 18:12:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kent,

That&#039;s a great tip! Thanks for your contribution, Kent. You have a great week too.

Cheers~

Mark

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Mark Foo &#124; TheBigDreamer.com&#8217;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thebigdreamer.com/how-to-spend-a-windfall-wisely&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How To Spend A Windfall Wisely&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kent,</p>
<p>That&#8217;s a great tip! Thanks for your contribution, Kent. You have a great week too.</p>
<p>Cheers~</p>
<p>Mark</p>
<p><abbr><em>Mark Foo | TheBigDreamer.com&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.thebigdreamer.com/how-to-spend-a-windfall-wisely" rel="nofollow">How To Spend A Windfall Wisely</a></em></abbr></p>
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